Is simple, just assume that everything happens for a reason.
Not fun when it strikes you, but if you are still alive and have survived;
just assume that all happens for a reason.
Makes everything bearable.
The hard part is not to accept the reason.
The hard part is to realise that there is one in the first place.
Because that transcends you and your perception.
So it requires admitting the retardation of the ego.
The ego gets in the way too often.
In everyone. The ones that refuses it the most.
Most tragedy is because of the ego.
In projection or reflection.
So none can be blamed.
It would be to blame one particular computer for the Internet.
It is just that the ego refuses to admit that in most people.
Hence conflict, thus tragedy.